Can A Saved Person Go To Hell If He Commits A Sin Just Before He Dies?

By Albert Kang

In August 2023, I wrote an article about one of my church members who was afraid that if he did not fully forgive everybody just at the moment of his death, he might end up in hell. [https://wordpress.com/post/coffeeshopstoryteller.wordpress.com/1994]

In this present article, I want to add more information to help you understand better concerning this matter. For those of us who are the disciples of Christ, we know how the Lord has placed a special emphasis and importance on this topic of forgiving others. He said that if we hold onto our anger and do not forgive, it will affect our relationship with God.

Let’s say if we have bitterness in our hearts and then die, would we go to heaven or hell? Didn’t Jesus say that if we do not forgive others, then God will not forgive us too? (Matthew 6:14-15). To gain clarity on this matter, we need to grasp the THREE TYPES OF FORGIVENESS:

I. REDEMPTIVE FORGIVENESS: The Foundation of Salvation
Redemptive forgiveness is the most important forgiveness we receive when we believe in Jesus as our Lord and Savior. It’s not something we earn by doing good things, but it’s given to us because Jesus already did everything necessary for our forgiveness and redemption on the cross.

When I was pastoring in Pittsburgh, PA, an elderly man told me the reason why he would go to heaven. I thought he would say that because Jesus died for him and provided salvation for his soul. To my horror, he proclaimed that it was because he had been a good person all his life and so he felt that he deserved to go to heaven.

Let me emphasize – salvation is not earned through personal efforts or good deeds, but rather through the finished work of Christ on the cross. This forgiveness is bestowed solely based on faith in Jesus and His sacrifice.

II. RESTORATIVE FORGIVENESS: Sanctification To Transformation
Restorative forgiveness is an integral part of sanctification and occurs after salvation. When we were saved, God accepted us as who we were but He wanted something much better for our life. Our old sinful character of selfishness and self-centredness will not do. God’s desire is to transform us all into the image of His Son, Jesus Christ.

So, sanctification is not just a one-time thing that happens in our lives. It’s an ongoing process where the Holy Spirit is sent by God to help us become the people He wants us to be. When we accept Jesus as our Savior, the Holy Spirit begins working inside us and helps us recognize our sins and make positive changes. Even though we might still make mistakes, commit sins, feel angry, or behave badly, the Holy Spirit will help us realize when we’re doing something wrong and guide us to do what’s right. It’s a journey of our spiritual growth and we are becoming more like Christ, with God’s help.

While our “sins” as believers may not jeopardize our salvation, they grieve God because they hinder the transformative process intended for us. Repentance plays a crucial role in this regard. When we acknowledge our sins, turn away from them, and seek forgiveness from God, we demonstrate our commitment to living according to His will (1 John 1:9). Repentance facilitates our growth, restoration, and an increasing likeness to Jesus.

III. RELATIONAL FORGIVENESS: God’s Love Empowers Our Love
When we have a good relationship with God, our whole being is affected. It empowers us to love, forgive, serve, resolve conflicts, and model Christ’s character. As we grow closer to God, we will become better neighbors and colleagues, contributing to a more harmonious and loving community. Here’s how we can do it:

Love and Compassion: When we cultivate a close relationship with God, we experience His love and compassion firsthand. This love transforms our hearts and enables us to extend love and compassion to those around us. We become more understanding, kind, and empathetic towards others.

Forgiveness and Grace: God’s forgiveness and grace towards us inspire us to extend the same to others. As we grasp the depth of God’s forgiveness, we become more willing to forgive and extend grace to those who may have wronged us. This attitude of forgiveness fosters healthier relationships and promotes reconciliation.

Humility and Servanthood: A genuine relationship with God helps us develop humility and a servant’s heart. Instead of seeking our own interests, we learn to prioritize the needs of others. This selflessness allows us to build meaningful connections with our neighbors and colleagues, as we actively seek to serve and support them.

Conflict Resolution: God’s wisdom and guidance help us constructively navigate conflicts and disagreements. Through prayer and seeking God’s guidance, we gain insights into resolving conflicts peacefully, promoting understanding, and fostering reconciliation.

Model of Christ: When our relationship with God is strong, we strive to reflect the character of Christ in our interactions. We seek to treat others with respect, fairness, and integrity, following the example set by Jesus. This Christlike behavior cultivates trust and promotes healthy relationships with our neighbors and colleagues.

FINAL WORDS
When we accept Jesus as our personal Savior, we receive Redemptive Forgiveness and become right with God. The Holy Spirit through the sanctifying process, helps us transform and grow through Restorative Forgiveness. God’s Relational Forgiveness affects us so deeply and it will bring us to live harmoniously with our neighbors and colleagues.

In summary, as long as we have a true Born-again experience with Jesus Christ as our Savior, we have received the Redemptive Forgiveness. If anything were to happen to us last night, we can be assured that this morning, we would be worshipping our Lord Jesus in heaven.

However, since we are not going to heaven yet and there is much to be done here on earth for the kingdom of God, we still have to go through the transformative process known as Sanctification. The closer we are to the Holy Spirit, the better our relationship would become with others. God’s love influences and empowers us to love, forgive, serve, resolve conflicts, and model Christ’s character. As we grow spiritually, we become better friends, neighbors, and colleagues, contributing to a more harmonious and loving community.

Even though we are not perfect, we are living in the “perfecting” way or the way of sanctification. The Holy Spirit will continue to prompt us to live a repented and holy life, and even if we fail just at the moment before our demise we will never need to worry about what will happen after we die. The Redemptive Forgiveness of the finished work of Christ will take care of our journey to heaven.

Here is a message on YouTube by Rev Albert Kang about these three types of forgiveness and how you can live a life of forgiveness and freedom.
https://youtu.be/lFMjGKG8pkU?si=On_5eaDl_q13yx4i

Why Do You Drink Poison And Expect Your Enemy To Die?

In the teaching of the New Testament, believers and bitterness are contradictory to each other. It’s like fire and water. They just cannot mix. A true believer cannot harbor bitterness in his or her heart. Paul the Apostle encourages every believer to “get rid of all bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words, and slander, as well as all types of evil behavior.” (Ephesians 4:31 NLT).

Jesus emphasized that “forgiveness” is part of the basic character of a true believer.
Then Peter came up and said to him, “Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? As many as seven times?”
Jesus said to him, “I do not say to you seven times, but seventy times seven.”
Matthew 18:21-22

The rabbis of antiquity recommended the “three-strikes-and-you-are-out” approach in forgiving. A person is required to tolerate and pardon three offenses of his opponent. However, after that, he is allowed to retaliate or take revenge.

Peter was more magnanimous than the rabbis because he recommended forgiving the offender seven times. Jesus blew the concept of three and seven pardons out of the water with His “forgiveness” standard raised to “seventy times seven”. Jesus did not mean that we should only forgive 490 times. His answer to Peter set the biblical standard: as believers, as long as the person repents, you have to forgive that person. If he offended you again and again and repented, again and again, you will have to forgive Him. Yes, countless times. The apostles who were listening with Peter finally exclaimed to Jesus in full recognition of their weaknesses, “Increase our faith!” (Luke 17:3-5).

However, you may say that it is easy to say but the feeling of unforgiveness and bitterness is difficult to overcome. It is especially difficult when you have been hurt by those whom you least expected to do so. As time extends, such unresolved anger gradually turns into full-blown hatred and bitterness.

Many believers are stuck in this rut of bitterness and feel totally helpless in overcoming it. The worse thing for them to realize is that the people who hurt them do not even seem to care how they feel. In their deep anger, the devil is having a wonderful time manipulating them. He suggests many ideas of malice and revenge. And that is why bitterness and hatred inevitably become the sin of murder.

Some secretly wish that bad things will happen to the offender such as dying a gruesome death. Others curse these offenders under their breath. The more religious ones pray imprecatory prayers of judgment upon their adversaries even though the teaching in the New Testament does not encourage that. Instead, the Apostle Paul exhorts believers saying, “Bless those who persecute you; bless and curse not” (Romans 12:14).

If you can identify with these struggles, here are some helpful steps to help prevent you from poisoning yourself.

TELLING THE TRUE STORY TO JESUS
Stop and consider telling the most accurate story only to Jesus and yourself. Why? Because for too long now, you have created a story for others so as to justify your inner struggle, hurt, and pain. You also provide the reason why it is impossible to forgive the person or persons who hurt you.

Like a good detective, you may have to search through years of scattered memories and historical rubbles to determine the facts of the situations that caused you to retaliate in anger and hatred.

Is it what the person said or did, or is it being made to look ridiculous that offended you?

When I was around seven years old, I was “made a fool” by an uncle at one of our family gatherings. It was actually nothing – this uncle mimicked my childish voice when I addressed him. All my cousins laughed and I felt thoroughly embarrassed. Ever since that incident, I had a dislike for this uncle. It did not amount to hatred but at any family functions, I avoided him at all costs. It was not until I was 40 years old that I realized that it was that particular hurt that caused me to “dislike” this uncle. Thank God for revealing that to me. How did I resolve it?

The best approach to such a negative encounter is to confess, repent and hand the hurt feeling to the Lord in the Handing-over Prayer. That was what I did and I reconciled with this uncle socially and in my heart.

STOP TELLING YOUR STORY TO EVERYONE
One of the hurting people’s weaknesses is the desire to tell their negative stories to just about anyone. You can tell your story to a counselor or pastor so that you may receive helpful counsel and advice. However, if you repeatedly share your negative story with everybody you are keeping that painful memory alive.

When you prayed and surrendered that hurt to Jesus, He had begun the healing process in you. As you keep trusting and handing the struggle to Him, soon that inner wound will be healed.

Repeating your negative story is like digging into your old wound and making it all bloody again. Then Satan will control your life because he strives in conflict and pain. Unknowingly to you, the devil has shackled you with the chains of victimhood.

CHECK YOUR EXPECTATIONS
Another reason for the inner hurt may be that you have unrealistic expectations. Even though it is common for everyone to have certain unrealistic expectations, that does not mean that it is healthy.

An elderly missionary who returned alone to the USA from the mission field of Africa wanted to be treated with great honor and respect. However, the denomination did not really accord him the level of honor that he expected and according to his son, this missionary died an angry and bitter man.

A close relative had an adversarial marital relationship because she expected her husband to be able to read her mind and anticipate everything that she needed. She associated his inability to discern her needs as he did not love her enough. She was perpetually hurt despite the assurance from her husband.

Another friend expected her family members to respond in certain ways and when they did not, she was furious. For her entire life, the sad and often angry memories of her “uncaring” family members were repeated in endless narratives to others.

Unrealistic expectations are damaging because they are too complicated for any ordinary relationship to be established. These expectations are destined for failure. No amount of unforgiveness and bitterness will change your situation. By paying attention to why every unrealistic expectation ends up in failure or quarrel, we may become wiser and better at dealing with such disappointments.

TIME TO HAND OVER YOUR BURDENS

Jesus said in Matthew 11:28-29: “Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you. Let me teach you, because I am humble and gentle at heart, and you will find rest for your souls.”
The Lord is definitely sympathetic to your hurts and brokenness. You can come to Him with your tale of sorrow, and He will not scorn you. You can cry upon His shoulders, and He will not push you away. In the deep silence, you will hear His voice of comfort and liberty. He will gently untangle your throbbing affliction and His peace will calm that stormy discrepancy.

Every hurting memory does not need to own or control you. Every flood of pain does not need to drown you. When all these come and they will come, all you need to do is to acknowledge each feeling of hurt and pain. Don’t fight it. Just acknowledge it, receive it, and then give it a shape and color in your mind.

For example, someone falsely accused me of something and I was hurt. The inner hurt continued to fester as long as I avoided it. When I took responsibility to acknowledge it. I gently received it and gave it the shape of a square and the color was green. Then what did I do with that angry feeling that had a shape and color? I gently handed it over to the Lord.

You may be wondering whether that painful thought ever come back and the answer is that it kept coming back. And I kept up with the same handing-over process. Then, one day, it just didn’t come back with that emotional baggage anymore. I recalled all the words of the false accusation, but they no longer carried that emotion of hurt, anger, and pain in them. I no longer disliked the person who said it. I was able to honestly pray for him and even fellowship with him without any hesitation in my spirit.

Jesus is not only most willing to give you rest but He assures that you will surely find rest in Him. When you trust Him with all your struggles, you will receive your spiritual refreshment. A strong dose of inner nourishment and deep peace will flow within when you hand every ugly thought and painful memory to Him.

As you hand over all to the Lord, you may want to enter into His service and bask in the light of His teaching. The first “rest” is while serving Him, you’ll find your purpose of being, and the second “rest” is found in His life-giving Word. You’ll discover daily purification from the filth of the world. Both are necessary for your spiritual refreshment and growth. And both these can only be found in Christ and Christ alone. May you refuse to poison your life and surrender everything to the Lord.

Here is the playlist of a compilation of Handing-over Prayer videos for you to listen to and share with others.
Playlist of Handing-over Prayer

Is Unforgiveness Blocking Your Healing?

Since 2005, I have ministered healing successfully to more than 10,000 people and I praise God that they have been gloriously healed. However, I notice another large group of people, even though they have great faith to be healed but still do not receive their healing miracles.

There may be various reasons why they are not healed but after having counseled and checked many cases, I traced the discrepancy to one huge, ugly obstacle and that it is unforgiveness. This confirmed what I have learned from the Bible and also from my mentor, Pastor William Lau, the founder of The Elijah Challenge. The unconfessed sins of bitterness, hatred, and unresolved anger are actually hindering God’s blessings and healing miracles.

In a few of the deliverance encounters, demons left upon my command but returned quickly to the victims. I call this the “Swinging-Door Syndrome“. Unforgiveness somehow gives the demons the legal ground to enter the victim again. (Matthew 12:43-45).

Our Lord Jesus knew the danger of unforgiveness and how it would hurt us – and so He gave this admonition, “if you do not forgive others, then your Father will not forgive the wrongs you have done.” (Matthews 6:15).

In Matthew 9, we read the narrative of a paralyzed man lowered from the roof so that Jesus could heal him. Before Jesus healed him, He first forgave the sins of the paralyzed man. The paralysis was obviously caused by the man’s sins and therefore that needed to be dealt with.

In the Lord’s Prayer, Jesus taught His disciples to pray, “Forgive us the wrongs we have done, as we forgive the wrongs that others have done to us.” (Matthews 6:12)

Peter was trying to place a limit to forgiveness when he asked, “Lord, if my brother keeps on sinning against me, how many times do I have to forgive him? Seven times?” ‘No, not seven times,’ answered Jesus, ‘but seventy times seven” (Matthew 18:21-22). In short, Jesus was teaching that in the kingdom of God, we should always forgive each other. There is no limit to forgiveness.

Paul emphasized, “You must forgive one another just as the Lord has forgiven you.” (Colossians 3:13).

A forgiven person should be the first to recognize the need to forgive others. The chances why it is difficult for most believers to forgive is because they have forgotten that they are forgiven people. When believers fail to accept the truth of their own forgiveness, they continue to live with a sense of guilt and self-condemnation. The hurts caused by the offenses that have been taken away by the Lord at the cross, continue to be upon them. This perpetually generates unlimited guilt and shame upon their lives.

There is no freedom of Christ for those who have allowed themselves to be shackled and imprisoned by their own harsh judgmental attitude. People who are under judgment will always judge others. When you shackle yourself to the notion of “justice” and that you must get even with those people who hurt you or despitefully use you, you lose your freedom within your spirit. You no longer can be gracious or operate from the zone of grace.

The truth of the kingdom is that the people who recognize themselves to be under grace, find the source of strength to always be gracious to others. Once you realize that you are no longer under judgment but have been fully forgiven by the grace of God, you are liberated and become free. Suddenly, you’ll notice that the door of your self-imposed prison of judgment has never been locked. The grace of God has smashed every lock of judgement and condemnation. You do not need to remain in this dreadful dungeon anymore but step out into the sunshine of grace and forgiveness. Now you will have the grace and freedom to forgive others seventy times seven times.

Here are some declarations that you present before the Lord and be set free from the shackle of unforgiveness:

In the mighty name of Jesus, I nullify the power of these past offenses that have been keeping me in mental anguish, emotional shackles and spiritual bondage.

I surrender to the Lord any right to judge so-and-so for saying bad things about me or doing harm to me.

I write off any responsibility, debt, liability, or obligation that the person owes me because of past offenses.

By the power of the Holy Spirit, I forgive all who have offended me and release them unto the Lord.

I humbly submit to the Lord and ask Him for courage, grace and strength to relate with the person without regard to past offenses.

I am asking and will continue to ask God’s blessings to be upon their well-beings.

Here is a video on Radical Forgiveness! Trust that it will help you. God bless!